Saturday, September 24, 2011

Free to fly

On Saturday, September 24, 2011, Demelza Danquist wrote:
It's quite often we take advantage of the "normal" things in our lives that are always consistent and seemingly simple.  Like waking up every morning nestled into your cacoon of soft warmth, for a job that may not pay you what you're worth but it pays.  It's the food that somehow multiplies overnight at your local market that you frequent, always making sure your favorite treats are stocked for your next visit.  It's the money, however little or much, that rests in your wallet until you chose to exchange it for something you find worthy.  Countless things I forget are such a luxury.  But this is not however a reprimand for enjoying the life and privileges we share, this is a celebration of sorts for one particular privilege I have not been able to enjoy until this week.

March 17, 1997 part of my already small family arrived in this beautiful melting pot of the USA.  It's been an incredible experience I've loved almost every step of the way.  Ive enjoyed living inside this beautiful county but unfortunately have not been able to enjoy leaving and returning to it since that far off day in March.  This is not because  I never wanted to but rather because of a series of unfortunate  events and a clearly incompetent immigration lawyer, that I wasn't legally allowed to exit the country and then return.  A little dramatic but almost as though being trapped in a cage surrounded by a forest of trees and other free flying creatures.  Trapped.  
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> The grueling process of immigration contains mounts of paper work smeared with lawyer jargon and countless fees of amounts best not mentioned.  Then there's the waiting and nail biting for the desired "approval" notice that for years seemed to get interrupted or delayed or even lost.  14 years, 6 mo and 2 days later, Craig joined me in the final interview for the application to become a permanent resident in the United States which was finally approved. I am now free to roam the world and return with ease.  I'm inclined to book myself on the next flight to anywhere but will refrain and wait our wait until nov when we leave for our long awaited journey.  Its still a surreal reality that i don't think will set in until I'm actually on the plane holding a ticket to Sydney Australia.  

Australia will be our first of many destinations I can't wait to share with you all!  A tentative itinerary will be posted on here next week for any and all of you to take a look at for potential meeting spots along the way.  We would love to share this trip with you not only through the blog but also in person when possible. This is an exciting time for both Craig and I and we look forward to having you participate in any way you choose.

PS. More frequent posts to come!
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Cheers and aloha

Saturday, August 13, 2011

Breaking in the Shoes

At the end of July Craig and I packed our recently purchased backpacks for a full month of US travel.  We started in Pittsburgh for a wonderful weekend with my sister-in-law and her fiance.  We had a wonderful time kayaking the river, meeting Mr. Rogers and his newly knitted red sweater, eating fabulous food and meeting their dynamic friends.  Pittsburgh has far more to offer than I ever imagined passed the Stealers, and amongst my favorite was the Strip District.  The streets are lined with open and in-door markets where you can get anything from fresh meat butchered that day to hundreds of types of cheeses from all regions of the world.  The produce is fresh and local and there is more black and gold sports paraphernalia than any non Stealers fan would care to experience.  We enjoyed some remarkably delicious tacos de lengua from a street stand where I got to practice my spanish skills on the highly surprised chavo behind the wagon.  This is where we bought everything needed for the spanish flare meal Craig prepared for a us and a group of Jenny and Todd's friends.  I'm so spoiled to be able to take him and his skill wherever we go.
So after a bit in utah visiting family, we packed our rental Nissan Versa with the 2 coolers, a small grill, pot, pan, plates, silverware, auxiliary cord, a bin to hold all this and there must have been something else we bought at DI (the Utah version of Salvation Army or Good Will) for a meager $23.00.  We bought some food, ice and packed our things for a camping adventure through Southern Utah.
The drive to Bryce Canyon National Park was far more comfortable than expected only because the cheapest care we could get had begun to surprise us it's smallness but masses of space available on the inside.  We got to the park and after a short search the perfect camp site fell upon us.  No one near us, a hillside behind us and better bathrooms than I've seen in any public location in a very long time only 150 yards away.  This backyard hillside lead us straight to an overlook of a valley of Hoodoo below and all the way around to the next valley.   Hoodoo are the unique formations in the rock formed over hundreds of years of corrosion and weather found in the Bryce Canyon.  We watched the sun set on the deep pinks and oranges on these pillars of dirt and decided to not only enjoy a different view the following day from the valley over but also to explore and find our way to the distant ridge called Table Top Plateau.  This would give us a view looking straight at Bryce instead of down from above.  This is when the Versa really proved her magnificence!
First step, find a map.  Second step, find the road. Final step, live through it to tell the tale.  The road to the trail was not too bad.  4 wheel drive recommended but we had the confidence and determination to see it through.  The trail was farther walk than we thought and much longer but very worth the view and beauty at the top.  The perspective from that elevation is priceless and to think just hrs before we were standing hundreds of miles across the valley looking at the point we were now standing on.   The trek back was just as fun as the hike up with lots of laughs, creativity and silent moments to look within.   The Versa was still there with her thick layer of dust, well rested and ready for the journey down the mountain.  But why go down the way you came and knew when you can take another way that would bring us closer to our next destination?  Not knowing what the road would bring we made our way farther up to go down.  It was Craig's turn to drive now and he was doing very well through treachery until we crept up on a slope of big rocks and gravel.  Volunteering to scope it out I walked down about a 1/4 mile of pure rock of all sizes which made up the road now.  The slope being about an 8% grade and extremely narrow with a cliff on one side there was no way we could make it back up or turn around if we decided to take the plunge, so it was turn around or take the chance!  Having no clue wether or not the road got worse down the way, he put the Versa in low gear and I started chucking rocks, boulders and whatever else obstructed our way.   Careful guiding, several hundred squat thrusts and hours of nail biting conditions later, we made it through what we came to find out was actually an ATV trail.  Thanks map that clearly needs to be updated! We survived and actually had a hell of a good time doing it!
Just south of Boulder Utah theres a lovely campground nestled into a rock canyon called Calf Creek.  It sits next to a stream thats fed by a waterfall only three miles into the canyon and cost us a mere $7.00 to camp.
Camping just outside of Moab Utah next to he Colorado river meant rinsing off.  It's cold but very refreshing and surprisingly cleansing after not showering for 3 days.  Arches in the morning and then the drive to desolate but breathtaking Monument Valley where my dad lives and works.
Utah is a marvel to be sure offering the most diverse landscape within it's milage than any other state i've visited.  Showing Craig the State brought a new and bright perspective of a place I spend so many of my growing up years.
And so our journey continues in Durango Co for the next few days before we fly off to West Hollywood to spend some time with a couple of good friends.
So far this trip has proved to be the testing ground for our year or so journey around the world.  There's so many things to consider when traveling out of one back pack for an extended period of time with one person that you love before you start and hope they can still tolerate you by the end.  We're learning that we still love to travel together and have lots to learn about and from the other.  

Sunday, July 3, 2011

"God bless America"

the fourth of july now marks the great american holiday in the mind of this hybrid and soon to be american. i always heard it was but until this year i have not felt it, truly ingested it for the first of many times. being married into this lovely and truly american family sheds light on such treasure and wonder for me. to the detail of recycling to the wonder of fire works its all a key part of the new and blessed experience. now let us eat another hamburger...a fabulous one at that. but its those moments of brie and blue mixed with my american cook of a husband introducing flavor from around the world through his own unique experience. this is the moment i basque in the light of his passion. the loves of my life making love in the kitchen...food and craig in america xoxoxoxo